When it comes to coming out in the closet, when do you think is the worst time to tell it? I had an ex who told me that he might be gay right after we had sex. It made me think that I might be terrible when it comes to sex that's why he told me that he was gay.
Bad Timing
Сообщений 1 страница 20 из 20
Поделиться2Чт 14:38:44
Maybe it was because he had sex with you to truly understand if he still enjoys having sex with a woman.
Поделиться3Чт 14:38:52
It made me think that he treats me like his sex guinea pig to test if he'll enjoy it. Anyway, he is not good in bed so I let it pass.
Поделиться4Чт 14:38:57
It sounds like your getting soured there just because he turned out to be gay lol.
Поделиться5Чт 14:39:03
The worst time is what you shared. Why would that guy confess after you had sex? That would be very disappointing on our side as girls.
Поделиться6Чт 14:39:08
He might be thinking that it would be worse if when he tells it in the middle of it lmao.
Поделиться7Чт 14:39:15
It would be better that you ask the guy on why he decided to do it then and there.
Отредактировано Cool (Чт 14:39:19)
Поделиться8Чт 14:39:35
I'm guessing that it would be during the holidays especially if your family is the conservative type. That would definitely be a huge mood killer.
Поделиться9Чт 14:39:41
Do you know someone who came out during the holidays?
Поделиться10Чт 14:39:48
But for some, it is the best time. Some families only gather completely on holidays and that is the time you can share it with everyone.
Поделиться11Чт 14:39:54
Anytime would be the worst time especially if you are surrounded by those people who do not accept your identity.
Поделиться12Чт 14:40:05
If the person knew that his/her family are a bunch of homophobes, does it mean that he needs to stay in closet for the rest of his/her life?
Поделиться13Чт 14:40:11
Do you know how to deal with it by the time you've told them that you're different?
Поделиться14Чт 14:40:17
Did he not inform you beforehand that he is thinking if he really is gay or not?
Поделиться15Чт 14:40:22
He did not which is bad, only told me once we're done and I'm kinda pissed.
Поделиться16Чт 14:40:28
Is he still your friend? Vamala. I think he realized something that he does not want to do it with a woman anymore.
Поделиться17Чт 14:40:33
If you're the type who often seeks for attention, it would be during a wedding, family reunion, or funeral.
Поделиться18Чт 14:40:38
Do you know someone who's actually done that?
Поделиться19Чт 14:40:48
I know that coming out is very important for that person, but doing it during those events is such a dick move.
Поделиться20Пт 18:32:43
For me, Anytime would be the worst time especially if you are not expecting it. In your case, I'll probably slap the guy for saying he's gay after we've done it.